I’ve never been very good with change. I normally won’t actively seek change – rather I find that I will only change if (1) everybody else is changing (2) I have no other choice (3) I do it on impulse.
That’s not good.
During driving lesson a few weeks back the instructor told me, ‘You take too long to make decisions when you are driving. You must learn to make judgement quickly, correctly and then execute them. You are too prone to second guessing yourself. You have to be more confident and assertive.’
Then as a parting shot, he said ‘You must learn to be more selfish’
I made up my mind to change, but it is not an easy process.
I need to be more driven, I need to be more assertive, I need to be more confident. I don’t want to change too much.