新年快樂, 年年有餘, æ?喜發財, æ²æ²å¹³å®‰!
Actually I copied and pasted these greetings from Wikipedia. Haha… cause I don’t have a chinese erm, typing system so I had to go online to get greetings.
Hey did you know on the 2nd day of the lunar new year ‘the Chinese offer prayers to their ancestors as well as to all the deities. They are extra kind to dogs and feed them well. It is also believed that the second day is the birthday of all dogs.’ (From Wikipedia) So cute right! Birthday of all dogs…
I wish I had a dog…
Anyway, yesterday was better than expected. For all the bitching on NYeve, it was really better than expected, bar the awkward small talk with some cousins (and the need to act demure… haha). As usual, all the guys prayed to the god of
But this year I won’t be detered! So I joined in! Although (1)I didn’t play (2)I was relegated to the ‘old school’ gameboy. Haha… okay la. I thought it was quite funny how they liked to make fun of WQ. Cause he is the youngest of all cousins, a good 8 years younger than the next youngest, and he is kind of spoilt. So when X was playing some car racing game, WQ was complaining… so J plugged in the other controller and told him ‘Hey you’re playing too… look, you’re the other passenger in the car, you have to help him steer’
As he gets older, it’s harder to lie to him. Haha…
We didn’t eat overpriced prata this year! We went to Little India to eat overpriced curry. Some restaurant beside Muthu’s Curry (which isn’t all that nice).
(Aftermath)
Yummy!
Then went to play pool.
Anyway, what I really wanna say is… sometimes I forget the happiness. Cause I think I’m actually quite lucky that my maternal side family is quite close… And I always bitch about them (making small talk, overachiever cousin, cousin’s creepy gf etc) but in fact, I secretly love all of it. Okay maybe not love, cause it’s creepy. Maybe I secretly like my extended family a lot. Like it’s a kind of good natured ribbing… Like of course I go around telling people oh I hate it when my aunts tell me to get married soon blah blah blah, but actually don’t you think it’s pretty sweet? Haha.
For the record, I spoke to cousin’s creepy girlfriend. Okay la, spoke is kind of a stretch. I asked her what her name is, cause we have never been formally introduced (she just appeared at family gatherings one day). We spoke like a maximum of 20 words before I had to leave to eat overpriced yummy curry. And played pool with overachiever cousin, who was very nice to me everytime I missed a simple shot (which is pretty much all the time).
Butterfly malt candy thingy!!
Oh ya! I wonder what they call me… I mean refer to me as. Cause I go around refering to all my cousins by their name sake and (only this year) I realised that they don’t refer to me as Christine. Or Chris. Or even Pei Shan. Do you know what they call me! *horrified* My godmum calls me ‘baby’ (*hides), my godcousins call me ‘jie’, my other aunts and uncles and cousins call me ‘girl ar’. Wtf?! Haha… I don’t understand it… I have 2 other female cousins! Okay so maybe I’m the youngest female in the family, but still!!! How come the rest of them get to be called by their own names when I’m referred to as a generic gender?!!?!?
Seriously, none of my extended family calls me by my real name or even a variation of it. Okay even my own family doesn’t call me by Chris/Shan etc. In fact, the only people who use the name printed on my IC are the people outside my extended family. (ie friends and acquaintances. Although I’m also known as peanut to some… haha)
Huh!!
I’d like to think it’s a kind of endearment. Seriously… cause the other reason would be that they totally forgot my real name.
Oh ya, the lion people come today… Did the whole dance thingy and stuff. Can you believe I was in bed until they arrived at the door step?! I had like 2 minutes to throw on some decent clothes, brush my teeth, wash my face and comb my hair. Was barely out of the room when they started the dance. Huh.



























